When someone makes false accusations—especially in the context of domestic violence—your natural reaction may be to defend yourself directly, confront the accuser and/or attempt to set the record straight. However, doing so can be one of the worst mistakes you make.
In Florida, false allegations of domestic violence are taken seriously by law enforcement, but even a single misstep in how you respond can be used against you, not them. As a result, if you’re facing false accusations, it is imperative to avoid confronting the person making those claims.
First, do nothing
The legal system is designed to assess accusations through evidence, procedure and impartial review—not through personal back-and-forth. Confronting the accuser, whether in person, over the phone, through social media or even via a third party, can be twisted into an allegation of intimidation, harassment or witness tampering. What you see as an attempt to defend your name could quickly become a new charge—one that worsens your legal position and damages your credibility in court.
This risk is even more serious if a no-contact order is in place. Violating such an order, even with good intentions or to “clear things up,” can lead to immediate arrest and new criminal charges. Florida courts do not take these violations lightly. Judges often interpret contact—direct or indirect—as a sign that the accused cannot follow instructions or respect legal boundaries, which can influence everything from bail to final rulings.
Second, seek guidance and support
The best course of action is to let your attorney speak for you. A criminal defense attorney who has significant experience navigating domestic violence cases in Florida will know how to challenge false accusations using proper legal tools: cross-examination, evidence gathering, witness testimony and, when necessary, formal motions to dismiss unsupported claims.
Your job is to protect yourself. Avoid the urge to engage. Save all communication attempts from the accuser and report any attempts they make to contact you. Preserve texts, emails or social media posts that may support your defense. Every move you make should serve your legal interests.
